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Name: Ashley
Country: United States
State: Michigan
Metro: Lansing
Birthday: 11/6/1982
Gender: Female


Interests: cheerleading, skiing, snowboarding, basketball games, football games, MICHIGAN football. IU basketball
Expertise: Cheerleading, skiing, football, basketball
Occupation: Special Education Teacher
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Member Since: 12/17/2004

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Saturday, June 03, 2006

Saturday, June 03, 2006

Ashley Got a JOB!
Current mood: chipper

So guess who got a job!?  I did!!!! I just got offered a job in Mt. Clemens. So i will be leaving this great city of Lansing  in August to start my new life and my grown up life in Clinton Twp. for those of you who don't know... it's not anywhere near St. Johns! i'll be living closer to detroit. it's actually where i grew up it's quite weird how everything comes full circle.

But it's awesome, it's a great school that I will be working in so i'm excited. I just feel really bad for my roommate... she has to find a new roomie by august. so you'll have a good day and there will be more to come. 

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Just an update...

So quite a bit has happened since I last posted. I'm still working at Chili's that much hasn't changed, and I'm still trying to find a job... keeping fingers crossed.  But JJ and I have broken up, actually we broke up two and a half weeks ago... can't believe it's been that long already but it has.  I'm actually doing really good.  Everyone should be shocked.. but I'm doing good.

Since then I've been chillin and talking to all my friends going out, and hanging out, doing everything I should have been doing all along, and I don't really know why I wasn't doing this before... but I am now.  But I'm moving on with my life... I'm living my life.  I met a good guy that I'm getting to know right now. I know to some this might seem fast or whatever, but you know what, I still love JJ, I always will, he meant the world to me for the longest time, but he left me, and went to South Korea, he left to live his life, and do his thing, I apparently wasn't apart of his dreams at this time. So i'm doing what i need to do... move on. last time he and i broke up, i was devestated and didn't really do anything... I was a total reck and i'm not letting that happen to me again...

Now i know what you might be thinking, i'm not going to do what i did the last time in other regards to my life. i'm smarter now, and i'm grow up. I know my limits i know what i need to do. John's great. i don't know what will happen, but i'm just taking the time to get to know him and allow him to get to know me.

so that's my update.. i'm still alive and livin.


Friday, April 14, 2006

So far away... so hard
Current mood: depressed

Well i've been home for a few days, and lets just say i want to leave already.  Not that i don't like my family or anything, it's just not really where I would like to be.

I miss him so much and i'm starting to wonder if going to see him was the best idea for me. i new 6 months of not seeing him would be extremely hard but so is seeing him and then having to say good-bye again. it's harder i think this time around because i had everything that i was missing.  i was able to hug him and  hold his hand.  i know the next three months will fly by like the first three did, but it's just getting back into the swing of knowing he's half way around the world again. soon very soon... 95 days... here we go again with the count down but it's what i need to do to know that time is going by.

I LOVE YOU!


Friday, April 07, 2006

 

Time has flown....

Time has been flying since i got here one week ago... i can't believe i leave next wednesday already! it feels like i just got here.  but it's been so crazy. wednesday i stayed in and then ventured out on my own... in a city where i can't read anything and can't understand people i was all by myself.  it was a weird and good feeling at the same time.  i've always been timid and shy in new situations like that... those who know me.. i know! but no, i went out on my own, shopped (ok window shopped) went to lunch by myself, and got my nails done.  i actually had to make an appointment with the nail place! i was so very proud of myself.  JJ was too, he was a little nervous because i didn't get to his school until like almost 7 but i made it just fine.  i got on the bus, after finding the bus stop without a problem and got off on the right stop.  it's pretty cool when i don't have to depend on him to get around anymore.  i just don't feel confident to go anywhere expect the places that i'm really sure of.  you won't see my leaving Ilsan without him! that's for sure. 

 wednesday night we just stayed in and made dinner.  thursday we were planning on getting up early to go to the World Cup park, needless to say we both slept through the alarm!  but i was a bum while he went to work.  i stayed in and actually got to watch american tv. he finally got his cable hooked up and we have english speaking channels!! it's quite nice. after he got home we walked around LaFesta for a little bit before meeting his boss and co-workers to dinner at TGI Fridays.  (a pattern i know) but hey, when the boss is paying who says no?  free food is something i never turn down.  but it did make us change our plans.  we then found out that his boss is giving him tuesday off, my last real day here, so we can spend as much time together as possible.  how sweet  

so tomorrow he and i are getting up and going to Musan park (?) and going up Seoul Tower and getting a birds eye view of the city! can't wait.  we are then gonna go see world cup stadium and probably hopefully meet my friend Kristy there and spend some time with her.  it's been quite a while since i've seen her so it will be good too.  then who knows quite what were are going.  sunday we are heading to Incheon to see some other war stuff, pretty cool.  monday we're being taken to lunch by one of the head teachers, it's quite nice how pampared we are! then tuesday we are headed to the "beverly hills of Seoul" for some shopping.  we have to whole day to spend doing stuff and sight seeing, i just hope my camera can make it... it's been acting like the battery is about to die! until then, have a great day everyone!


Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Korea....

Here's just a touch of what i've been doing... more to come as the week progresses!!

Thursday, March 30, 2006

South Korea
Current mood: ecstatic

I am here in sunny South Korea visiting my one and only JJ! It's crazy to think that just a couple of months ago, i just started planning this trip. 

The flight was long and exhausting but quite worth seeing JJ.  I've missed him quite a bit and i'm so happy to be with him again. 

Well this country is quite different, but not much differnet from a big city.  I just can't read or talk to the people.. which sucks.  but i'm learning just a few things that will help me get buy.  Today i had my first bit of Kimbop (korean styly sushi) not that bad at all.  No fish or anything so all you sushi haters out there, get over it.  Public transportation is the way to get around, just don't walk in a cross walk infront of a bus, they really dont wait for a red light to change to green.  it's like a four way stop for them. they stop, look, and go really strange but oh well whatcha gonna do?

Can't wait for us to start sight seeing and seeing the real Korea, i will have lots and lots of pictures when i get back.. i'll try and post some before i leave. until then...

Peace Out!

Monday, April 03, 2006

my days here in Korea

So yesterday (Saturday), my first real day here in South Korea we went to a place that i can't even pronouce let alone spell, it's abbrieviated the DCN (i think  ) but we went shopping and i got a couple of purses, coach and LV fake of course! but who can tell... only if you are touching it! but to describe this place, the Downrange as it's called by many of those on the base is like this... jersey shop (fakes) -- trailor store -- strip club -- bar -- strip club -- jersey shop -- and so on so forth! nice place... like crazy but i managed to stay alive.  the army base camp casey is right there, so of course there is strip clubs and what not!

on Sunday JJ and i headed to the War Memorial in Seoul, very nice amazing experience.  they salute america more than i think america does here for the korea war.  i think they understand if we hadn't intervened and helped they would be a communist country under north korea.  but i have some amazing pictures that i will post when i get back to the states in a week and a half.  i found my great uncle's name on the wall of fallen heroes here, so it's an amazing experience but much different if you are related to people who experienced and laid down their life to help another country.  at the memorial there is a quote for all those to lost thier life saving South Korea during that time :

"Our Nation honors her sons and daughters who answeres the call to defend a country they never knew and a people they never met." 

I think that just sums up everything these people feel about all those who helped them stay a democracy. 

after that we then went to church, very different.  and then ate in itewon at a korean resturant went home watched a movie and went to sleep... now it's monday and were back to school!! having lunch with the owner and his wife tomorrow...exciting!!

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Wow... it's really different here!
Current mood: energetic

So monday i experienced a day in the life of JJ.  I stayed at his school all day... boy it was a very very long day!! I was able to get outside and walk around and see the town which was quite nice. i actually went into a burger king and ordered food all by myself! now i know that seems like nothing special but when no one really speaks English it's a big deal! we then went back to his apartment and watched a movie. 

Tuesday we went out to lunch with the bosses wife.  she took us to this upscale traditional korean resturant.  were you actually sit on the floor and eat.  it's awesome the floors are heated! but the food was well.... different.  it just kept on coming it felt like two different four course meals.  needless to say the bosses wife dropped probably around $80 dollars American on this meal.  Bugogi ( korean b-b-q) and all these side dishes made of noodles, soup, and more soup.  it was just crazy.  i ate meat for the first time in like years.  JJ was quite proud.  it's a moment that most likely will not happen again.  we then went to work and i of course didn't get to walk around because it was raining!! i just chilled and worked on the computer. after work we left and went to Shinchon (pronounced Shinshon) and walked around.  we checked out Yonsei University and it was quite cool. it's about the size of Western Michigan.  we then ate dinner at TGI Fridays ( i know so korean!!) but hey i had quite a bit of Korean food for lunch i deserved american food.  while there we window shopped and walked around.  i swear since i've been here i must have walked about 50 miles! it's crazy.  Wednesday should be just as exciting!!


Wednesday, March 22, 2006

what should one do?
Current mood: blah

well today was quite boring... i had to work ALL day long.  but whatever it was money i didn't have.  it all works in the long run, i need to money before i leave for my vacation so i can get ahead for when i get back.  i can't wait to see JJ i'm so excited!! i just hope he's as excited as i am.  seeing Korea is going to be quite interesting.  it's definately a place that i never would have thought of going to before, and it might now be a place i want to go to again... but we'll see.

so i pose a question for everyone... i'm tired of coaching right now, but i love it should i stick with it for next year or take a year off?  the other things i have going for next year is a brand new job (a first year teacher) and also planning a wedding that will be taking place in Feburary smack dap in the middle of basketball season so i would be taking a week or more off for the wedding and honeymoon... so what should i do?  i'm stuck. i would love to take a year off to plan and work, but JJ thinks i should still coach.. please give me some suggestions and some advice as what i should do.  Thanks...

7 DAYS!!



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